When I say limbo land, I'm referring to a stagnant relationship that doesn't seem to be going anywhere other than backwards.Whether it started out as a seemingly good relationship, friendship or perhaps even a random hookup, holding out for someone who doesn't seem interested in a future with you might mean it's time to reevaluate yours. We're hopeful that it will transform into something more.(In fact, you probably shouldn’t.) But a man who is interested in a serious relationship will be happy to hear that you are not just looking for a good time, and a conversation about your intentions will hopefully prevent confusion in the relationship moving forward.Another mark of a commitment-ready man is his ability to reach out to you.They are Dan, Alex, and Marty, budding investment bankers at the same financial firm, which recruited Alex and Marty straight from an Ivy League campus.
And while my relationships have ended for a number of reasons, when it comes time for parting words there is one send-off I dread more than any—the all-too-common “I’m not ready for a relationship” breakup speech. Seems like something to mention on the first date, right? A., LPC, author of the book and blog helps shed light on five important questions you should ask yourself.Do you want to have to drag him into the relationship kicking and screaming? If he recoils from your kiss like you have a permanent gaping cold sore every time you go outside, what's his problem?Don't take the 'I'm just not a PDA kind of guy' excuse.Maybe this person has serious commitment issues, and maybe it truly is just complicated.Maybe this person does actually care about you, but just not enough to put in the necessary effort and give up all the “freedom” he or she so naively believes a relationship holds him or her back from.